Come From a Place of Yes

Filed Under: About me, French Culinary Institute, Workon May 12th, 2010

This will sound very Oprah of me, but it’s true; if you want something, you have to constantly be thinking positive thoughts and creating an ora of acceptance. If you open yourself up to the universe and keep saying, “yes” you will reach your goals.

I read this great quote, and I can’t remember who said it, but it goes something like this, “Cynics are just failed romantics.” I think I’m both at times!

Despite my cynicism towards the job market the last couple months, I’m trying to look at things in a positive way. I’m trying to “open myself up to the universe” and let things come my way. Granted, lots of hard work, sleepless nights, and a do-anything attitude are needed to have things come my way. The best part is, I don’t mind working hard for a goal, I just have to keep reminding myself to say, “yes.”

Yesterday was one such instance where I was given the opportunity to say “yes.” A marketing employee from The French Culinary Institute was having a baby shower, and at the last minute I was offered to be the chef to cater the event.

By last minute, I mean I got the email at noon and I had to be there at four.

But what did I say … yes! Duh! Not only do I need the money more than the Greeks, but I’m always looking to network.

Low and behold when I show up, the party is being thrown by a very important, high powered, and incredibly lucky woman, who by chance used to work for one of my idols … an idol I’m struggling to get an interview with.

I passed out my card, did the best I could, cleaned the apartment until it was spotless, and PRAYED to God that this woman liked me. Best case scenario, I can connect with her later on. Worst case scenario, I got to cater another night and walked out with a little cash.

Not too bad for such a little word as “yes.”

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6 Responses to “Come From a Place of Yes”

  1. Jessi says:

    wow, col! AWESOME! I’ll be praying that it works out for you…being flexible and willing to say yes are so important…and def part of the ashton work ethic we all know and have been brought up in…i think work is the only acceptable reason to miss family vacation! keeping my fingers crossed for you!

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  3. m says:

    I AM SOOOOO PROUD OF YOU==YOUR ATTITUDE WILL TAKE YOU EVERYWHERE YOU EVER WANT TO BE AND WHERE GOD WANTS YOU TO BE==LOL,M

  4. Alisa says:

    I love your attitude and I hope things would turn out well for you soon! Yur blog is wonderful and I like your recipes here. Keep em coming!

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